I used to think consistency was overrated. A word tossed around in leadership books and productivity podcasts, usually followed by a checklist or a habit tracker. But the older I get - and the more I coach - the more I realize: consistency is the difference between intention and impact. One of my colleagues decided to run a marathon. Not someday. Not “when life gets less busy.” He picked a date, mapped a plan, and ran every single day. Rain, heat, fatigue - none of it mattered. He didn’t wait for motivation. He built momentum. And when race day came, he didn’t just finish. He flew. It wasn’t talent. It wasn’t luck. It was consistency. John C. Maxwell’s Law of Consistency , from The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth , is deceptively simple: Success doesn’t come from what you do occasionally - it comes from what you do consistently . Maxwell argues that personal growth is not a one-time event but a daily commitment. You don’t need to be excellent to start, but you must start to become ex...
 There’s a quiet truth I’ve come to embrace - not just as a coach, but as a human navigating the complexities of life and work: We don’t grow just by doing. We grow by pausing, noticing, and integrating. John Maxwell calls this The Law of Reflection : “Learning to pause allows growth to catch up with you.” It’s the fourth law in his book The 15 Invaluable Laws of Growth , and it’s one I return to often - especially when life feels fast, full, and strangely empty. Why Pausing Feels So Hard (and So Necessary) We live in a culture that celebrates motion. Productivity. Hustle. The next goal, the next meeting, the next milestone. And actually not only one goal, but multiple goals. All in the same time. All equally urgent. But what happens when we’re moving so fast that we lose sight of where we’re going - or why? I’ve seen professionals who’ve climbed the ladder only to feel disconnected from their own values. I’ve mastered execution but struggled with meaning. And I've been caught in t...